If you haven't noticed, I post a lot of Steph's Picks. In a perfect world I'd post 1/week. More often than not I end up posting a Steph's Pick an average of 2x/month. Dec 30, 2011
Steph's Pick | My Top 5 Picks of 2011
If you haven't noticed, I post a lot of Steph's Picks. In a perfect world I'd post 1/week. More often than not I end up posting a Steph's Pick an average of 2x/month. Dec 28, 2011
Family Matters Blog | Siri on Parenting
"...Although my girls are young (2.5 and 6 mo), I already see how easy it could be to fall into the trap of relying entirely on the church – seminary educated pastors, full-time church employees and energetic (and knowledgeable) youth leaders – when it comes to answering the tough questions that our children will have about faith. If we (the parents) aren’t building faith at home, there is no surprise kids grow up to become youth that don’t really care about devotedly serving others and they certainly don’t care about Jesus..."

Dec 27, 2011
In Our Home :: This Christmas

1) Santa arrived just in time for the girls. Somehow Santa knew Nora wanted a new Barney book (thank you very much St. Nick) and Elsie received a new toy for the car.
1) Nora isn't showing it here but she loves her new Melissa and Doug toy - the Pizza Party Set (thanks Nana). Dec 23, 2011
♥Merry Christmas♥


Dec 22, 2011
our trip to Disneyland
Don't get me wrong. We've loved lots of things about this month but it has flown by. And I'm not talking flown by like a kite - I'm talking flown by like a military jet. FAST!
- Kids under 3 are FREE :: Yes... you read that right. FREE. 'Nough said.
- We can drive to Disneyland (Anaheim, CA) from Phoenix :: We figure that more than likely we won't be living in AZ forever (God willing), and so we'll never be able to get out of the expense of flying our entire family to the "happiest place on earth." So why not take advantage of the close proximity of Mr. Mickie and Ms. Minnie's home? :)
- We met our {awesome} family there. Last January, Alan's brother, Nick, and his family moved to California. They too were up for a 4 kids vs 4 adults trip to Disney. Who better to go to Disneyland with than family???!!
- Disneyland at Christmas. We decided upon booking the trip that this would be our family Christmas gift to one another. We'd hear that Disneyland at Christmas is just magical and thought we'd check it out for ourselves.


And even managed to make it through It's a Small World without a meltdown (which is a lot to be said with 4 children in tote).
And eventually ended up at California Adventure where we waited (not-so-patiently) for Toy Story Mania.
But.. the 45 minute wait was worth it! I can't believe I'm saying that, but all of Nora's crying was worth it. The ride was a BLAST! 
We feel so fortunate to have been able to help create such incredible memories with our girls (and the other Flies family). 
Dec 18, 2011
In Our Home :: December (thus far)
Last week I launched a new series on our blog entitled In Our Home. In Our Home posts are a unique blend of the meaningful and inconsequential parts of our life. There will be things to make you giggle and things that will make you think. And of course lots of pics of our two sweet-as-can-be little girlies.
So here starts the second edition of In Our Home :: December (thus far).
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I LOVE December. Everything about it. Sure, there's a decent amount of hustle and bustle BUT there is just sooo much fun to be had. From the never ending treat selection, to mailboxes stuffed with Christmas Cards sent with love from friends and family - what's not to love about this time of year?! There's beautiful Christmas music playing everywhere. There's lots of gifts to buy to express our love for one another. And specifically in our home, there's even a blow up Santa right next door that Nora insists on visiting every single night to say "Hi Santa!" and "Bye-Bye Santa!" (just. too. cute.)
Here are lots of pics (not exaggerating here) to give you a glimpse into our lives over the past few weeks as we anticipate the celebration of the birthday of King Jesus.

1) This year we decided to buy a Costco Christmas Trees (for $45 we thought "Why Not?!"). We're loving the yummy scent of evergreen that fills our home day in and day out.
2)& 3) Each day (it seems) I'm floored by how creative my friends are! Here are just a couple of pinterest inspired gifts that I've received over the past couple of weeks. Personalized coasters from Katie and the cutest little bag (for Nora) and coffee mug sleeve from Allie.
4) Doesn't this girl look just like her daddy?! I think so.

Our Annual Cookie Decorating Day was just this past weekend. This day has become a highly anticipated day in our home not only because we leave with all sorts of yummy cookies but because we get to spend time with our family.
A huge thank you to Aunt Jane and Uncle Tom for hosting each year. We're so thankful for your hospitality.

1) After spending a little time in a friend's outdoor playhouse I've officially put in a request to Papa Scott to make (or help make) the girls one ASAP. Nora loved it.
2) I'm not gonna lie... I'm a bit in love with my wrapping paper this year. Pinterest inspired of course. (from Hobby Lobby - in case you're curious)
3) & 4) This past weekend we decided to take the girls to Dave & Busters for a family outing. Nora was a bit too little to really play the games but she certainly wasn't too little to enjoy picking out her prizes. We left with a princess ball and an Angry Bird. Jackpot!

Scottsdale Bible Church held their annual Winterfest celebration this past week. Nora especially loved the petting zoo (see above pics of her petting the sheep and the miniature pig), the snow and the cookie decorating room (figures!).
So. Much. Fun.

And last but not least was Alan's work Christmas party at The Phoenix Zoo. Nora is constantly asking me to take her to the zoo so this was a great excuse to load up the car and go. On this specific trip she especially loved the giraffes, camel and riding the carousel.
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Next up this week - a Disneyland Recap (yes... for serious).
Dec 16, 2011
Steph's Pick | French Dip Sandwiches
Dec 13, 2011
In our Home :: Christmas Season
1) All was a little too quiet around this home one morning. Let's just say we're working on keeping the pretty ornaments ON the Christmas tree. It's a daily chore.
1) The Pickle Ornament Tradition. Yes... there is such a thing. I didn't make it up. Essentially the pickle ornament is hidden on the tree and whoever finds the ornament first gets a little gift to start off the holiday season. This was the first year that Nora was able to find the pickle herself. So fun. Dec 9, 2011
Steph's Pick | Chili
It's FINALLY cold enough outside to make soup - HOORAY!! (And by "cold enough" I mean it's under 60 degrees in the evenings). Dec 8, 2011
Winter MOPS Newsletter Template
I wanted to share a little something with all of you wonderful readers out there (hi mom, mil, gma's x4 and aunts). Dec 6, 2011
a disneyland sneak peek (in photos)
Nov 29, 2011
DIY Advent Calendar
This is the year....the year when holiday traditions start to "stick." - Avery Print-to-the-Edge Square Labels 22806 (I found these at Office Max. Please note that they are not among the normal mailing labels as they are designed more for packaging needs. I found them in the stationary/postcard section)
- Favor Boxes (We found ours at Michaels - they are 2x2x2)
- Hot Glue Gun
- Items to put inside
- Download the following three Word Documents and print on Avery 22806 Labels ::: (1) Click HERE to download Advent Calendar Day 1-12 ::: (2) Click HERE to download Advent Calendar Day 13-24 ::: (3) Click HERE to download Advent Calendar Day 25
- Assemble Boxes
- Stick Label on front of Boxes
- Hot Glue boxes together
- Insert items inside
Day 1: Luke 1:5-10
Day 2: Luke 1:11-13
Day 3: Luke 1:14-17
Day 4: Luke 1: 18-20
Day 5: Luke 1:21-22
Day 6: Luke 1:23-25
Day 7: Luke 1: 26-28
Day 8: Luke 1:29-33
Day 9: Luke 1:34-35
Day 10: Luke 1:36-38
Day 11: Luke 1:39-43
Day 12: Luke 1:44-45
Day 13: Luke 1:46-56
Day 14: Luke 1:57-58
Day 15: Luke 1:59-61
Day 16: Luke 1:62-64
Day 17: Luke 1:65-66
Day 18: Luke 1:67-71
Day 19: Luke 1:72-75
Day 20: Luke 1:76-80
Day 21: Luke 2:1-7
Day 22: Luke 2:8-14
Day 23: Luke 2:15-20
Day 24: Luke 1:5-2:20
Nov 26, 2011
sister comparison pic | 5(ish) months
Without further ado...here's the girls both at 5 months old.
What do you think? Nov 23, 2011
Giving Thanks (for the kids we have) | Raising Your Spirited Child : Part One Review

I remember a conversation I had with a friend recently about how tempting it is to compare our lives to our friend’s/neighbor’s/co-worker’s (really anyone’s) lives.
We hear about how their 6 week old is sleeping through the night – I’ll take that please!
We can’t help but notice when another mommy down the street has the newest, most amazing double stroller on the market – where do I get one of those?!
We see a friend roll up to a play date in her brand new luxury car – yes, pretty please.
Then we hear about another friend’s 10-day vacation to
We start thinking – if only I had THAT stroller, THAT car, THAT vacation and THAT baby – I’d be much happier. More thankful.
Over and over again we’re left feeling worse and worse about our own lives.
I think this is especially true of moms raising spirited children. At least it’s true for me. Please tell me I’m not alone with this. Have you felt this way?
Between the intense “Am I the only one with a spirited child?!” feelings and the jealousy that so quickly sneaks into our hearts, we’re left oftentimes wanting more.

Thankfully much of what author, Mary Sheedy Kurcinka, writes about in the first part of Raising Your Spirited Child is encouraging parents of spirited children the have the freedom to celebrate and enjoy the delights of our spirited child(ren).
In her A Credo for Parents of Spirited Children she sets the tone for the rest of the book and highlights 5 specific things we must embrace in order to effectively raise our spirited child(ren).
A Credo for Parents of Spirited Children
- You’re not alone.
- You did not make your child spirited.
- You are not powerless.
- You have permission to take care of yourself.
- You may celebrate and enjoy the delights of your spirited child.
Spirited Children (all children really) are a GREAT gift and there is much to celebrate and enjoy in all of their spirit.
Coincidentally a lot of these thoughts that I’ve been processing have come at a great time of year – Thanksgiving - A national holiday in which we’re legally forced to take time to reflect on that which we’re thankful for.
Isn’t it so easy to peak into the “bags” God has packed for everyone else? Their strollers, their cars, their vacations and their sleeping babies. So quickly we forget that God has packed a “bag” for us that is filled with so much to enjoy and be thankful for.
With that in mind, this Thanksgiving I’ve decided it’s time to give thanks for what’s in my bag…
I’m thankful for…
…my sweet little Elsie who still wakes up at least 1x/night for special mommy snuggles. Because I just never know when our girls will be too big for snuggle time.
…my double stroller which was a gift from my parents and does the job in hauling my two little girlies around.
…our Toyota Highlander which despite looking like a cheerio bomb exploded in it, is able to fit all four of us and the above mentioned stroller comfortably. It’s exactly what we need.
…the vacations that are still yet to come (maybe not to
… and finally, for my spirited little Nora who everyday reminds me that there is MUCH to celebrate in this life.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Nov 17, 2011
Steph's Pick | Toddler Backpacks
After Elsie's arrival, one of my new mommy dilema's was what to do with my diaper bag situation at the church nursery. You see I only have one diaper bag (yes - for those of you super observant type - I did get a new bag when Elsie was born) for both girls. But when dropping the girls off at church, they are in different rooms and thus the one bag/two room situation just wasn't working.
Thankfully this sweet little bag didn't disappoint. It was just as cute as I'd hoped and Nora loves it too. She calls it her "hap-back."
Nov 11, 2011
Steph's Pick | i♥phone
Guess who's getting one of these??!!!

Me, Me, ME, ME!!!
Nov 6, 2011
a weekend in minnesota + a wedding
plus this little cutie patootie...





That's what you get when you have decent light, no toddler, a happy baby and a little extra time on your hands.










